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Can You and I Have a Courageous Conversation?

Amid the racial turmoil and violence following the murder of Michael Brown in Ferguson, MO, a group of individuals from various faith communities in Georgetown began meeting to explore the possibilities of engaging in civil, respectful dialogue about the difficult issue of race.

Over several months of meetings and research, we landed on what we call Courageous Conversations about race.  We studied several dialogue methods and community building strategies.

One dialogue method that captured our attention is The Red Bench, a program of Interfaith Action of Central Texas (iACT).  “The Red Bench is an on-going dialogue program designed to address the most pressing needs of our time: improving interfaith understanding and civil discourse in our society. “

iACT granted our Courageous Conversations group permission to use The Red Bench method, including their dialogue script, the talking stone and their Conversations Agreement. Let me share the ‘Guidelines for a Great Conversation’ from the Conversations Agreement:

Open-mindedness:  listen to and respect all points of view
Acceptance: suspend judgment as best you can
Curiosity: seek to understand rather than persuade; we are not here to “fix one another”
Discovery: question old assumptions, look for new insights
Sincerity: speak your truth, from your heart, about what has personal meaning to you
Brevity: go for honesty and depth but don’s go on and on

On May 30, 2017, I joined a group at the Unity Church of the Hills in Austin for a Red Bench conversation on the topic: Courage.

What a wonderful experience!  I was greeted in the parking lot by a trustee of the Unity Church who at one time lived in the Research Triangle Park area of North Carolina, where Chrystle and I lived most of our married life.

After dinner, the four rounds of the conversation began.  First, we introduced ourselves and told what motivated us to attend. Next, we shared definitions of courage. A list of quotations about courage prompted intense personal stories of courage displayed and of courage avoided.  It became quite clear and was a major ‘takeaway’ for me, that courage is a matter of self-awareness, but perhaps more importantly, a willingness to take action in light of that awareness.

The Courageous Conversations movement in Georgetown has a vision of creating “A beloved community of compassion characterized by cross-cultural communication, collaboration, celebration and courage.”

Yes, we aim to raise personal and community awareness of the racism and its impact on all of us. More importantly, we aim to take action in light of that awareness. Our actions are based on the philosophy and principles of non-violence, which is grounded in agape (compassionate love for humankind) as described by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

According to Dr. King, “Principle One: Nonviolence is a way of life for courageous people. It is active nonviolent resistance to evil.  It is aggressive spiritually, mentally and emotionally.”

In the ‘Beloved Community’ racism and all forms of discrimination, bigotry and prejudice will be replaced by an all-inclusive spirit of sisterhood and brotherhood.  If this ‘beloved community’ is to become a reality in Georgetown, can we begin by having a courageous conversation?

I invite you to join us for our next assembly on July 15 when we talk about Working on Race and Privilege.”

Ron Swain
Courageous Conversations Convener

Conversing Courageously Throughout the Summer

Inell, left, and Lamar Claypool display Courageous Conversations GTX t-shirts at the 2016 Juneteenth Celebration.
Courageous Conversations Planning Group members Inell Claypool, left, and Lamar Claypool display Courageous Conversations GTX t-shirts at the 2016 Juneteenth Celebration.

Dear Friends,

We deeply appreciate the work that many of you have continued to do individually and collectively to create a more “beloved community” in this wonderful home we call Georgetown.

On June 18, the Courageous Conversations Planning Group had a booth at the 64th Juneteenth Celebration hosted by the Georgetown Cultural Citizen Memorial Association at the Community Center in San Gabriel Park.

We were grateful to participate in a celebration of the abolition of slavery in Texas on June 19, 1865 which occurred more than two years after President Abraham Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation. At the time federal troops had to occupy Texas to free enslaved people there were an estimated 250,000 African Americans in Texas including over 900 in Williamson County.

Proceeds from the event  will be used to support maintenance and renovation of the historic Shotgun House Museum and the Willie Hall Center, two centers of historic significance to African Americans in Williamson County.

Members of our group have attended Georgetown City Council meetings and workshops to speak out on affordable housing and public transportation. Members also have attended the Georgetown ISD board meeting to discuss a proposal to become a District of Innovation because of questions about its impact on the education of our children and the work of our teachers. These members have been inspired by the idea that we have the potential to address institutional racism and to advocate for policies, procedures, regulations and decisions that will lift up those in our community who feel marginalized and unheard.

Members of the Courageous Conversations Planning Group continue to explore additional opportunities for additional education and action. We welcome your suggestions at LetsTalk@CourageousConvoGTX.com.

Sincerely,
Ron Swain
Courageous Conversations Planning Group Convener

The Journey Continues: One Human Race

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One Human Race GTX May 2016 graduates

Nearly 50 Georgetown residents recently completed One Human Race, a three-part workshop designed to educate people about racism and its devastating impact.

The workshop, developed by the Union of Black Episcopalians Myra McDaniel Chapter at St. James Episcopal Church in Austin, was brought to Georgetown by the Courageous Conversations Planning Group. The workshop was held at First United Methodist Church the second, third and fourth Saturdays in May.

“After the overwhelming response to the Georgetown Reads book discussion and the Courageous Conversations series in February, Black History Month, we wanted to bring another opportunity for engagement to Georgetown to help people address racism,” said Ron Swain, convener of the Courageous Conversations Planning Group. “There is clearly a thirst for the information people are learning, many for the first time, of the deep roots of racism in our country and state. There is also a deep-seated desire to ensure that Georgetown is a ‘beloved community” where everyone is valued, respected and accepted.’ ”

The Courageous Conversations Planning Group is working on activities for the coming months, including additional workshops, book discussions and information sharing.

The Georgetown Courageous Conversations Planning Group is an interracial, multicultural and multiethnic group of individuals from various faith communities working to facilitate respectful, civil conversations about race.

For more information about the Courageous Conversations Planning Group and to get on the email distribution list, please email LetsTalk@CourageousConvoGTX.com.

For information about other workshops offered by One Human Race in Austin, click here.